There is a direct contact facility for registerd users so your contact details are hidden till you reveal them.
There will be an e-mail confirmation and acceptance to complete your registration so This spanking contact site is free to use and is for those interested in spanking and being spanked, to discuss spanking, caning, OTK, corner time, the paddle, the strap the tawse the cane and any other form of punishment or discipline.
I don't know why, but God just seemed to wire me, a thirty year old female, that way when he made me.
I never understood that fantasy, but I knew it was strong enough to stay with me and grow in strength, as I grew in strength.
I may get blasted by Fet Life's owner, John Baku, for listing Fet Life as a "top" BDSM dating site.
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If not, that's acceptable too, since most reputable BDSM personals offer some information and basic information about the lifestyle.
I had friends while growing up who frequently got spanked, and all of my senses were keenly tuned to the sound of the word SPANKING.