Dating after a vastectomy


I know dating someone older, and with their own kids, is a gamble for someone younger but you can't help who you fall in love with.

He loves me and wants to spend his life with me, so do you think it is out of the question to ask him to reverse his vasectomy? Impregnate Me Irene To see DEARSUGAR's answer Dear Impregnate Me Irene If you want children with this man, it is not out of the question to ask him to reverse his vasectomy.

I am a firm believer in that if two people who enter a relationship put all pretenses aside, and are completely honest with each other, it can be a window into the future of their relationship.... So if you fell in love with a man, and years later found out he had a vasectomy, would you let this be a defining factor in your relationship, if you plan to have kids? If he has had a vasectomy, you can pretty much bet that he doesn't want any/anymore children. I'm getting my son a vasectomy for his eighteenth birthday. your one than it wouldn't matter if the roof caved in half of their body .. of course as a couple you would feel very saddened by the fact that you could not create a combination of YOU ..

In some areas you can have a vasectomy with having no children at all. I'm only 20, I want children so a vasectomy would be a huge issue for me. I can't see a vasectomy becoming an issue when two people feel the heat for one another .. but blending two people in love to raise babies that see love is far.. lucky enuff to find your long term lover is all that matters..

And if you're monogamous, that takes care of the STD question.

No more hassling with which method of birth control to use.


We both stand there bare-topped in our jeans and I explain the territory of my chest to him like it’s a map and I’m the tour guide. I am grateful that you seem to trust me enough to take a few first steps in that direction.”I cry when I read this. He understands me.*We make plans to visit a bookstore together in a couple of days, but I back out and tell him I’m feeling like I should slow things down.

Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... To the op get some of the boys frozen and go for it.


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