My situation is a little different because I have kids with the guy who also has an ex wife and son. What stinks is that I can sit here and tell you to have trust etc. The kids know about me and the two times we met he told me they really liked me.It seems he's not sure how to bring me into their relationship.If you’re one of those people in a relationship with a perpetually busy person, it’s natural to feel left out.These emotions are totally normal, particularly for individuals who crave a lot of togetherness and physical intimacy.
Time for intimacy may be replaced by time spent together with the children. Remember: in actuality you’re dating the entire family, not just the guy.But I’m leaking these three ideas for those of you who take the time to read my emails. If you want to capture his heart, you need his full attention. It’s like you’ve set up a system that will allow him to gradually get to know you better without the typical feelings of guilt he is used to facing when he realizes he’s gone three weeks without calling a girl he really likes.