However, the main reason why you shouldn’t take offense in these situations is that she didn’t actually ask for your help.
You think it would be really fun to have sex with me.
I wrote about this in Finding the One Online extensively – what it’s like to be a woman dating online and how men need to up their games to connect.
Hell, I just gave a TEDx talk about this very thing.
guys, especially ones who are more socially inexperienced or who deal with acute approach anxiety, regularly lament the fact that men are expected to do all the hard work when it comes to trying to start a relationship and wish women would help out by being willing to make the first move.
someone by unfairly labeling him “creepy” and insist that women need to be more considerate of the feelings of the men they’re rejecting… Women frequently message guys they’re interested in when it comes to online dating; it just seems less significant compared to the many men who will shotgun out messages.
Guys would become hostile when I told them I wasn’t interested in NSA sex, or guys that had started normal and nice quickly turned the conversation into something explicitly sexual in nature.
Seemingly nice dudes in quite esteemed careers asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I didn’t want to.” As a male coach for smart, strong, successful women, I apologize on behalf of all men. But they really don’t get what it’s like to walk a mile in your shoes.
Man poses as woman on dating site to prove his point.
You don’t have to tell her this – she will pick up on it by observing your overall character as a man.