Their behavior can be confusing, frustrating and maddening.
Part may stem from personal insecurities accompanied with a fear of committing, or it might be a natural habit.
The fact is that there are plenty of men AND women playing games out there. Furthermore, not EVERY man or every woman is playing games.
We can’t label ALL of one sex in this way because, realistically, that’s just not the case. They lead to anger, confusion, and shitty relationships – if they even get you to a relationship.
Who hasn’t fallen for that grand opening dating game, where they lure us with intoxicating conversations, funny dates, a perfect little heart necklace, delicious kisses and more? Fortunately, I’ve logged many therapy hours listening to men as they’ve opened up and explored their deepest needs and fears.
My last blog on top dating mistakes women make caused an uproar among male readers who complained my advice encouraged women to “play games.” Not a huge surprise, since the most common dating blunders are a boon to lazy men looking for casual flings.And yes, I think that women who play games are losers too.