But you are having emotional sex, and that can be even more intense, sensual and all-consuming than physical sex. Emotional sex is a friendship that escalates into something that feels the same as romantic love and can manifest itself in numerous ways -- physically, romantically, emotionally, lustfully, verbally, or virtually.These addictive love chemicals feel so good that it's difficult for you to even imagine ending contact with your friend. Any contact with the person becomes as potent as a drug addiction. Friendship becomes emotional sex when the feel-good brain chemicals and hormones that are released when even thinking about that person take over.We have been around since 23 March 2000 and, with your help, we hope to be around long into the future. You become friends with the sexy co-worker and decide to carpool to work together. You're married, or engaged, or you're in a committed relationship. All those tingly feelings and the fantasies that perhaps a "perfect love" can really exist isn't destiny knocking -- they're caused by "love chemicals" in your brain.
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You become "friends" with an ex on Facebook and reminisce about the past. You spend hours thinking about them and your heart races whenever you see a text from them. You tell yourself it's ok because you're not really cheating, you're just chatting. Biochemical research has shown that the effect of these love chemicals is twofold: they are released in response to your friend, and they bond you to him or her.
Pretty soon, you find yourself glowing every time you spend time with this person. This is especially true of women who produce higher levels of oxytocin -- the bonding hormone that enhances the feeling of having found your "soul mate" connection.
You will be apprehensive about how to make your partner open about his/her sexual desires.
Play ‘play it safe’ to break the ice and encourage your partner to participate in your ‘naughty sex talks’.Texting with your crush (or "flirtexting") gives you more opportunities to flirt with her than just hanging out.