It’s our job to create an end state and reverse engineer it through strategic PR planning. Publicists don’t land clients in national media outlets by sitting quietly. PR girls are well versed in media and train their clients to speak in sound bites as well. For example, if there is breaking news of a train crash because a train conductor has sleep apnea, you may say, “That is so terrible.” She will say, “My client is a sleep apnea specialist and needs to be putting out tips on how to detect the early signs of sleep apnea to prevent future crashes.” While you passively read the news, she is actively thinking about how to insert her client into the story. She is a better lawyer than you are (even though she didn’t go to law school). Often, you may wonder if you are dating a lawyer instead of a publicist. Her idea of five minutes and your idea of five minutes are not the same thing. This is what makes them so successful in their career.
So, we start thinking that way about everything else in our lives—including new relationships. Our ability to fight for the client and get people to see our clients in a fresh way is what makes us good at what we do. Even when we’re on vacation, we are always working. We can have 10 different conversations at any given time, and we expect you to be able to do the same. If she asks you a question and your response is longer than two minutes, she is critiquing your response in her head and figuring out how to shorten it. PR people are trained in crisis communications, and their goal is to get the media to see a story from all sides. First dates with a woman who works in PR can feel like forced interrogations. She expects you to be excited when her clients are in the news. Don’t be intimidated if you take her out and five people walk up to her to give her a hug. PR girls do not have trouble voicing their opinions. Publicists are often asked to present 12-month timelines to clients.
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If you have a date lined up with a woman who works in PR, make sure you read this first. She constantly compares your relationship to client scenarios. While the day-to-day of a PR professional is unstructured, the onboarding of a new client is extremely structured. In order to write strong pitches to editors, she has to have excellent communication and grammatical skills. If you write “your” instead of “you’re” in a text, she will call you out on it. If you two are at dinner and a breaking news story comes out, expect her to drop everything. After you get a client a press placement, they want to know when the next one is coming. Don’t be surprised if this mentality spills over into your relationship. In “TV” time, if you don’t respond to a producer within five minutes, they have already booked a different guest for the segment.
It’s our job to take someone’s entire life story and make it “media friendly.” Don’t be surprised if she starts talking about the onboarding phase of your new relationship or about “vision setting” and growth objectives during the first date. The way she responds to news is unlike anything you have ever seen. We constantly have to outdo ourselves and prove our worth to clients, and we like when men do the same for us. Similarly, don’t be surprised if the PR girl you’re dating has already moved on after five minutes. PR girls know what they want and will pull out all the stops to get it.
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